Four Movies for Your Consideration

I love movies. Not ALL movies, but as a general rule, I love movies. Here are four I recently watched that I felt like blogging about. Two I've seen before, and two were new views.

“Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon”

I own this film and have seen it quite a few times, but haven't watched it recently until last week. Not much to say that hasn't already been said, but I'd forgotten how beautiful this movie is, mostly in the visual sense. Like “Hero,” the use of color and different landscapes is absolutely gorgeous, and the score is fantastic. I think this was also the first martial arts film I'd ever seen, so it's somewhat nostalgic.

“The Constant Gardener”

If you haven't seen this movie, you should. I've read about a third of the book by John Le Carré that the movie is based on, and I have to say this is one of those rare instances where in many ways, the film adaptation outshines the book (well, the little I've read of the book). In the special features, even Le Carré said something to the effect of, there are not many scenes in the movie that you can find exactly in the book, yet this is still one of the best adaptations to film he's seen. Anyway the film is great. Great story, great acting, and it's another beautifully shot film. (You may be able to tell the visual aspect is kinda a big deal to me.) Most of the Kenya footage is shot documentary style too, which makes the look and feel of “TCG” very unique to bigger studio movies. I felt like they also did a good job of touching on some of the humanitarian issues in Africa without being preachy or throwing the story off track.

“The Help”

Michael and I finally saw this one at the Dollar Theater. I finished the book just before the movie came out, so I've been wanting to see it. I thought the film was a decent adaptation and generally captured the spirit of the book. It was also very well cast and well acted. However unlike "The Constant Gardener," the film didn't really break any new or creative ground in relation to the book, so my verdict is that the book is superior to the movie.

“Exporting Raymond”

I'd seen a trailer for this little documentary awhile back and it's been on my list of movies to see. We finally got around to renting it and I was not disappointed. It's basically the story of Phil Rosenthal's (creator, writer, and executive producer for Everybody Loves Raymond) experiences in helping launch the Russian spinoff Everybody Loves Raymond Kostya. He documents his journey as he travels to Russia and wrestles with the culture clash and resulting conflicts with the Russian crew and network that's trying to get the show off the ground. I don't want to give too much away because you really should see it, but i'll just say the people he meets, the experiences he has, and his commentary (verbal and facial expressions)  are all hilarious. I also enjoyed that the story is tightly woven. The documentary is only an hour and 25 minutes long, and it's perfect. It also doesn't try to be smarter than it is. I feel like a similar documentary would do some lame little Russian history or politics montage as background information slash filler, but this film is basically, hey I'm in Russia! Here's what I'm doing, meet some of the interesting people I met, and here are some observations and insights I gained from the experience. Anyway, definitely one of the most enjoyable movies I've seen this year.

So there you have it, four movie recommendations. Well, three and a half. You really should just read The Help.

Things I'm Learning About My Teenage Self

Hindsight is 20/20, they say. I've always known that to be true, but it is never more true than when I look back and read past journal entries of mine. I am not a "journaler" now at all, but I used to be. Starting in my sophomore year of high school and ending somewhere in the college years, I journaled pretty much daily. Nowadays, I'll journal maybe once or twice every few months. Going back and reading those old entries from my hardcore journaling days is...interesting. Back then I journaled the actual events of my day, my thoughts about those events, occasionally journaled prayers and spiritual insights, and whatever else popped into my head at the time I was writing. All that makes for a pretty vivid picture of my life at that time. I've been going through my entries chronologically over the past couple months and am up to the end of my junior year of high school. I have smiled, winced, been encouraged, been discouraged, remembered some things I'd forgotten, and forgotten things I should have remembered. Here are a few brief observations regarding my teenage self...

First and foremost...boys - obviously this is some of the discouraging and wince-inducing stuff I was talking about. I was SO boy crazy and yet so completely clueless about then at the same time. I'm embarrassed to say boys take up a significant portion of most entries. I was "in love" with so many guys who didn't know I even existed, and I interpreted every interaction I had with them to mean they felt the same way. There were also guys who I was convinced liked me, but looking back I really don't think so. Then there were guys that obviously liked me (based on my looking back more objectively at the interactions I detailed), but in my entries I totally did not see it or believe they were interested in me. All that to say I am grateful that my completely whack ideas and feelings about boys at the time only manifested themselves in stupid teenage girl journal entries, and not something more serious, like unhealthy relationships and the like. I'm also grateful to be married and done with the whole guy thing!

Second - My memory is not as good as I thought it was. There are significant things, events, and people that in my entries that I had totally forgotten about. Even worse, there are significant thing, events, and people that I still don't remember at all even after reading detailed descriptions of them. On the flip side, things I do remember come back to life in vibrant color as I read, and that's pretty neat.

Third - I really have no idea when the exact moment was that I became a Christian, but it's encouraging to read some of my prayers and spiritual insights from back then. I was no Christian superstar or anything, but at the least I can definitely say (based on the entries) that I was trying to maintain a biblical worldview on things (even with the boy stuff), there was a clear desire to trust God in hard situations (even if I didn't always succeed), I cared about people around me and their spiritual state, and I was learning and growing in little ways here and there. It's amazing to see how God has both grown cemented things that began in high school and also reminded me of some things I was doing then but not doing now (and should be).

Fourth - I am so blessed. I had such a good and rich and peaceful adolescence. Of course things weren't perfect then or now, and it's not because I was so great or anything, but in God's goodness and sovereignty, He has blessed me with such a great family and upbringing. Reading about past things I did, people I knew, friends I had, family experiences, etc., reminds me of how blessed I was/am. I am so thankful to Him for all the blessings and little trials of those years, and even more thankful for His guidance and love in that time.

P.S. Fifth - I'm so, so, so glad I don't have to study for any more AP tests or worry about homework and tests and papers!

Harry Potter! (Yelled with a British accent)

Okay so I know I'm about, oh, ten years late on this debate, but oh well. Michael and I recently saw the final Harry Potter movie at the dollar theater. It was the culmination of several weeks of watching all the HP movies in chronological order. Having not read the books, the movies were entertaining and it was fun to see the kids growing up in each movie. Anyway, watching the movies brought to mind the past outcry from many Christians about the series. "Burn it!" and "You and your children shouldn't be within 500 miles of it!" seemed to be the sentiment of many. I didn't really agree with those ideas at the time the debate was raging fiercest, but having watched all the movies now and gained a better sense of the themes and story arc, I can safely say that I still disagree.

The series was rejected by many Christians because of the witchcraft and wizardry contained in the story, and of course there's the appalling fact that those kids drink butterBEER! Gasp! Now granted, I absolutely agree that there are numerous and very clear commands against witchcraft, consulting mediums, etc. in the Bible, but my goal isn't to exegete those passages to figure out if the HP series truly qualifies as witchcraft or practicing it, etc. (By the way...I don't think it does) I personally believe that this, like many things, is a matter of Christian conscience. As such, here are my two main thoughts about the whole thing.

First, the overall themes and elements of the HP series seem to be quite universal to any and every epic story - good vs. evil, courage, redemption, grand quests, friendship, learning from your mistakes, pressing on in the midst of adversity, etc. The HP series even includes the more overtly Christian theme of self-sacrifice for the good/salvation of others. So to me, HP really doesn't differ much from most grand tales with which most Christians have no problems. Specifically, the HP series did not seem much different (in theme and scope) to those other two works HIGHLY venerated by most Christians - The Chronic - WHAT! cles of Narnia (sorry, couldn't resist) series by C.S. Lewis and The Lord of the Rings trilogy by J.R.R. Tolkien. Witches and wizards and magic and supernatural arts are central to those series. Why then is the HP series verboten and Lord of the Rings celebrated?

I think the answer to that question is related to my second thought, which is that this whole debate raises the larger issue of Christians and media. I could rant for hours about the often arbitrary "sacred"/"secular" lines Christians draw when it comes to movies, tv, and music, but I won't. I'll just say that I think it's taking the easy and let's be honest, lazy route to take one look at something and throw it on a "Christian - good" shelf or a "Secular - bad" shelf. Obviously there are certain things that are firmly in one camp or another, but I generally think that more of us Christians could be more discerning and think more critically as we evaluate things around us to determine the bad and good in something. To ponder the elements that can be redeemed and used for loving others around us, and/or how those elements can help us further awe in and glorify our creative, beautiful, and just God.

Summer Update Part II

In our last electronic one way conversation, I still had my trips to Seattle, LA/San Diego, and Austin ahead, and Michael had just started a new job. Picking up where we left off...

Seattle

Girls weekend! It was so refreshing spending time with good friends - catching up, eating delectable food here and here, exploring Ballard. I've been friends with those girls since my freshman year of college, and even though all of us have gone down very different roads, we remain close.

Los Angeles/San Diego

As settled in Texas as I am, I still breathe a sigh of contentedness and just feel "home" when I go back to Southern California. I treasure my time with family when I'm home. This time around I also got to enjoy my first bridesmaid experience for my dear friend Erin's wedding. It was such a fun few days, and her wedding was fun and beautiful.

Austin

Just a couple days after I returned from California, I was off again for a week to the Lake Travis/Austin area with Michael's mom, aunt, and three sisters. We stayed in a gorgeous house with an unobstructed lake view and negative edge pool. Ahhh I miss that pool. It was quite an exhausting week to be honest though. I get along great with Michael's family, but still as the only "in-law" present, I'm still getting to know everyone better and it's just tiring staying on your toes the whole week, trying to be intentional with every conversation, etc. I think I was also just missing Michael. So it was tiring, but I do feel like I got to know them better and it was still an enjoyable trip.

Michael's job endeavors

So Michael's job I told you about? He quit that one after about a month. It just wasn't working out. Michael has also wanted to start his own business for some time, and we figured if we're going to do something like that, now is the time. We have the time, money, and kidlessness to pull it off (with God's help). So, through a series of circumstances, Michael has now bought a big truck and 3-4 car hauling trailer, and he'll be hauling cars around the Houston area for dealers and auctions and such. It's been a lot of work for him - getting a business license, insurance stuff, registering with the city/county/state, etc., and spending all our money haha :) but it's exciting! I'm glad that he'll be able to choose his hours and do something he enjoys!

Busy Bees

This summer has been a whirlwind! We're normally pretty boring and hardly ever busy, but it seems like so much has happened in the past few months. Here's the rundown in a few chronological bullet points:

• Hawaii/LA trip & Michael news - At the end of May we headed off for a vacation to Hawaii then LA with my family. While on this trip, Michael found out he did not get into the physical therapy assistant program he was going for. I guess a Bachelor's degree, observation hours at a good hospital, and straight A's in all the pre-reqs just isn't enough. It was disappointing news after he had worked so hard the past two semesters, but we trusted that God had it all figured out - in His sovereignty, nothing is wasted.
• Bryan housebuilding trip & Cheryl news - A week after getting back from LA, we were off to Bryan/College Station for two weeks to help frame a house for a church who has a ministry to women in need. Michael and some guys from our church worked tirelessly for two weeks to get this house framed to perfection. It was a really fun and productive trip. We made some new friends and strengthened existing relationships. While on this trip I found out that my hours with CHF would most likely be cut back from full time to part time starting in August. We said, "Okay, Lord" and started praying for a job for Michael. It's actually all worked out though. Even though my hours are being reduced, I'm going to independent contractor status, giving me more freedom in when and how I work - a definite plus!
• Schlitterbahn! - A week after the Bryan trip we took a short overnight trip to Schlitterbahn, a giant waterpark near San Antonio, with a family from church. We hadn't spent a lot of time with them and enjoyed getting to know them. The husband is an astronaut and Navy pilot, so it was neat hearing about some of his experiences. Oh and we had SO much fun at the waterpark. Who doesn't love waterslides? Only crazy people.
• Family time - Michael's parents came in from Saudi Arabia around this time so we spent a couple weekends hanging out with family.
• Moving! - Throughout all this, we've been putting together plans to move onto Michael's grandma's property. She lives about 45 minutes south of us on about two acres with a house and a couple large storage spaces separate from the house. Through a long process, it was decided that we would clear everything out of one of the garages (which is about the same square footage as our current apartment) and build out living quarters so Michael and I could move in and be just 50 feet away from his Grandma if she needed anything. The whole deal will be a blessing for her and us! Michael got to draw up the plans and everything, and it's been fun to design the space. It's exciting because it'll be the first "house" Michael and I live in. We've been in apartments since we've been married, so I'm looking forward to having our own place, even though it's not "ours" and we'll have to move out in a few years when they sell the property. Anyway, the construction will be done in the next couple weeks and we'll be moved in by September 5.
• New job - God is gracious and has (relatively) quickly provided a job for Michael. It's a job with an oilfield services company and we'll see where it goes. For now though, we're just thankful that Michael has a job! We just returned from a three day trip to Victoria, Texas, (there's nothing to do there) where Michael got some preliminary safety training for work. Safety first!

To be continued...So that's been our summer so far, and we've got more adventures ahead! Over the next month or so, I'm helping out with a VBS kids club at my apartment complex, we're packing and moving, and I've got trips to Seattle, LA and San Diego, and Austin planned. With everything going on, I'm actually thankful for the reduction in my work hours. I'm looking forward to all my trips and also just having more time in general.

In all this we've been thankful to God for his faithfulness in providing so many things over the past few months and look forward to whatever lies ahead!

Hawaii/LA Vacation 2011

*For the two of you who read my blog, I know this is a monster entry. I wrote it more for my own personal record keeping than for you to waste time reading it. Therefore I'm not offended that you won't read the whole thing.

(Pictures are on fb. I'm too lazy to cull through my pictures and find a few to post here.)

Day 1 (Wednesday 5/25)

Looong day. On three hours of sleep we were up for 24 hours before our heads hit the pillow again. We stayed up until 12 watching Julie & Julia (mmm French food) and woke up at 3:30 to head to IAH. The next 12+ hours were spent on flights from IAH to Salt Lake, Salt Lake to LAX, and LAX to Kona. We met up with my family at the gate in LAX and all sat together for the flight to Kona. Little Seth hit was on my bro-in-law's lap behind us hitting Michael on the head for most of the flight, but once we were in Hawaii, he wanted little to do with either of us. Pshhhh those temperamental babies. :) We arrived in Kona, got the rental cars and headed to Hayashi's You Make the Roll (thanks for the suggestion, jwong!) with the intention of eating dinner there. Unfortunately it started raining and there's only outdoor seating, so we decided to go back another day. Even more unfortunately, the day we wanted to go back there, we found out they'd be closed for the rest of our trip for Memorial Day weekend, so we never made it. :*( Oh well, next time, right? We had dinner at Costco instead (can't beat that food for those prices) and did the bulk of our grocery shopping for the week. Exhausted, we all finally headed to the house that would be our home for the next 7 days. It is a GREAT property: lots of bedrooms to accomodate the 11 of us, backyard pool, and a beautiful lanai stretching around most of the house. We tried to stay up talking for a bit, but ended up going to bed pretty soon.

Day 2 (Thursday)

So Hawaii is 3 hours behind LA and 5 hours behind Houston. Thus the kids were up before 6am and in the pool by 7:30 haha. Woke up and headed to the closest snorkeling spot after breakfast, Kahalu'u Beach Park. It's probably less than a mile from our house. When we got there the tide was fairly high and the kids were able to play in a little tide pool area. The snorkeling was great fish-wise. Not a ton of pretty coral, but lots of colorful fish. It's a pretty rocky beach (like most of the beaches on the big island) but there is a small sandy corridor that most people used to get in and out. We also saw a few turtles there were coming right on shore which is always cool. After snorkeling we headed home, the kids hopped in the pool and some of us headed to Safeway to get some more groceries. I noticed lots of great Asian groceries, forgot where I was for a second, and exclaimed, "Wow! Great Asian food section." Then I remembered I'm in Hawaii, and not in Texas, where the Asian food section in the grocery store takes up like one shelf. We just ate dinner and chilled the rest of the evening, and watched part of Tron: Legacy. Michael and I had seen it already but my nephew hadn't. Love the effects and soundtrack on that movie, not a fan of the casting (with the exception of Jeff Bridges and Michael Sheen).

Day 3 (Friday)

Today was our adventure to Captain Cook's monument in the Kealakekua Bay. We left the three littlest ones with my mom and headed to pick up our kayaks at Aloha Kayak. We got a little lost on the way (GPS is NOT reliable 100% of the time) but eventually made it. The guy strapped three kayaks to the top of our rental van then gave us a great info session about where to go, what to expect, what to do, etc. We headed off down the mountain to the bay, unloaded our kayaks, and got going on the mile-long stretch from the launch to the monument. On the way we got to see some spinner dolphins. At first we could kinda see the tops of a few of them swimming along, then one of them decided to get crazy showy for all of us. He/she jumped in the air spinning and flipping just 10 feet or so from our kayak, and this happened several times. It was crazy - like being a Sea World watching dolphins perform, except this was in the wild. It was an amazing experience, and we were thankful we even got to see dolphins at all, because they're not always around. I wish I had my camera with me, but we had left most of our stuff in the van since we were kayaking. We never flipped over or anything, but it wasn't worth the risk. Anyway the dolphins were amazing, but my nephew was in our kayak and he gets really motion sick, so we had to book it to shore. Once there we just towed our kayaks around with us while we went snorkeling, since you now need a permit to dock on the shore where the monument is. The snorkeling was pretty amazing, coral-wise. The water was super clear with great visibility, and the coral was incredible. We didn't see too many fish, but the coral and underwater terrain were interesting enough. There was a reef close to shore, then a steep drop-off into the blue depths. It was a really great snorkeling spot and we had a great time. We were there for a few hours then kayaked back to the other side of the bay. On the way home we stopped at Kalama's, a little place off Napo'opo'o Road on the recommendation of the Aloha Kayak guy. We all got shaved ice and it was DELICIOUS! We got home and I spent some time with one of my nieces in the pool, then we just ate dinner and relaxed the rest of the evening.

Day 4 (Saturday)

I don't really remember what we did in the morning today, we probably spent it in the pool. In the afternoon we headed to Wawaloli Beach. The rocks there for a huge tide pool/lagoon that's great for kids since the water is only about knee deep and protected from the surf. The kids played in the water and we explored on and around the lava rock. It's crazy how much lava rock is on the big island. It makes for some pretty rough beaches, but it's really beautiful at the same time.

Day 5 (Sunday)

Today we headed to the City of Refuge/Puʻuhonua o Hōnaunau National Historical Park‎. We walked around the grounds first, then headed to the neighboring beach. There's a beach on either side of the historical park. One of them is supposedly good for snorkeling, but it looked super busy with hardly any parking, so we went to the other one. It was nice, lots of picnic tables and some tide pools that the kids could play in. It was a relaxing afternoon, and overcast skies provided a much needed break from the sun. In the evening we went into town and had dinner at U-Top-It since Hayashi's was closed. :( The food was pretty good, although I wished I had ordered something different. Michael had a loco moco with white rice, eggs over medium, and a curry gravy and it was really good. Afterwards we walked down the main thoroughfare on Alii Drive and found Scandinavian Shaved Ice on recommendation from the checker at Safeway. The moment I took my first bite though I knew it wasn't as good as Kalama's, not even close. The syrup was heavier and the ice was not really shaved. I think Kalama's hand shaves their ice or something because it's really light and feathery, whereas Scandinavian uses one of those machines that basically makes a snow cone. Plus Kalama's has the option of drizzling sweet cream or coconut cream on their shaved ice which makes it that much better.

Day 6 (Monday)

More pool time in the morning. In the afternoon we headed to Kekaha Kai State Park because we had heard from multiple sources that it has uncrowded, beautiful, sandy beaches. After getting off the highway there's a 20 minute rough drive over lava rocks to the parking lot. We didn't have 4WD vehicles and were fine, but it would've helped and gone faster if we did. Once at the parking lot there's a five minute walk to the first beach, Mahaiula. This beach is great - sandy, lots of shade, uncrowded. The kids played here in the surf the whole time. There's another beach though which is a 20 minute walk from Mahaiula called Makalawena Beach. The 20 minute walk is pretty rough on your feet as it's over lava rocks the whole way, but it's so worth it. Makalawena is even more deserted that Mahaiula and the sand is finer and softer. Absolutely gorgeous!

Day 7 (Tuesday)

Michael and I struck out on our own today. We headed south along the coast toward the Hawaii Volcanoes National Park. We were hoping to see some active lava flow, but no luck throughout the day. The park was pretty neat though. Lots of beautiful scenery and various ecosystems. In one park we saw lava cliffs on the coast, rainforest, lava wasteland, and forest. We went on a few mini hikes and just tried to see as much of the park as we could in a few hours. Afterward we decided to just go on to Hilo (on the opposite side of the island from where we were staying in Kona) because it wasn't far from the park. We stopped at Cafe 100 for dinner. The book we had with us said it was a good local spot and for the most part, it didn't disappoint. Michael had another loco moco that he thought wasn't as good as U-Top-It, but I had the "Hapa Plate" consisting of fried salmon, teriyaki beef, brown rice, and macaroni salad. It was really good, plus we were starving since we hadn't eaten all day. We ran out of the house in the morning to get going and didn't grab any lunch stuff. We had planned to grab lunch before going to the park, but there was only one food option inside the park, and it was closed for renovation. So we were sooo hungry by the time we got to Cafe 100. After eating dinner we decided to drive the northern route around the island to get back home. Just after we pulled onto the highway, Michael found a scenic route which led us to this secluded beach area. The eastern side of the island is really lush, and the beach area was surrounded by rainforest and high cliffs. It was getting dark but we still walked around for a bit and enjoyed the scenery. On the drive back I read some of The Hunger Games to Michael to pass the time. That series is sooo addicting. I bought all three books in the trilogy for my Kindle just for this trip, and I was done with all three books in a matter of days. We also pulled off the road at one point just to look at the stars. We could see so many of them shining brightly in the sky. It reminded me of the crazy amounts of stars you can see in Fiji.

Day 8 (Wednesday)

Woke up, headed to Kahalu'u for one last bit of snorkeling. Again, shallow water at low tide with little coral but LOTS of beautiful fish. After lunch we visited this little painted church. After seeing paintings and frescoes in places like Israel and Turkey that are much older, I wasn't too impressed (I know, that sounds snobby and pretentious), but it was a nice little stop with some beautiful flora on the church grounds. We then headed to the Kona Pacific Farmers Co-Op, where we bought some Kona coffee gifts and walked around their grounds. It was a cute little place with some animals, fruit and coffee plants, and information about the co-op. Then we went back to Kalama's for shaved ice. Seriously the best. Then it was home to pack, eat dinner, and head to the airport for our red eye back to LAX.

Day 9 (Thursday)

We got into LAX a little after 5am and were in Simi by 7. We had breakfast at Yanni's Best Charbroiled Hamburgers and it was delicious. I had the french toast which was really good, but they have this great breakfast special for $2.99 that includes two eggs, bacon or sausage, homemade fresh potato hashbrowns, and toast. At home we just dropped our luggage and went to sleep. Michael and I fell asleep watching Spider Man 3. Ummm yep, still as bad as I remember it. After everyone woke up we just ate lunch and lazed around, then headed to Santa Clarita for my niece's play. She had a pretty big speaking role and the whole thing was really cute. They play was about the history of the Santa Clarita Valley complete with musical numbers and costume changes, all performed by 3rd graders. Like I said, cute haha.

Day 10 (Friday)

We woke up groggy and tired but headed to Newbury Park to meet my older brother, his wife, and their son at my brother's studio. We got to hear some bits of FoF's new record and it's going to be a GREAT album (as usual!). Then we headed to lunch at Olas Mex Grill for some surfer Mexican chow. I had the chile verde wet burrito and it was pretty good. Huge portions to suit my huge appetite. On the way back to the studio we stopped at Element Coffee. SUCH a great coffee spot! Michael and I rarely drink coffee, but even we could appreciate the mocha we had. Quality coffee, plus they make their own chocolate for their drinks and stuff. We agreed that if there was a place like Element near us in Houston we'd become coffee drinkers. Then we headed back home so Eric could go back to work and Taiko could nap. My mom suggested we go on a hike so we trekked up the Chumash Trail for a few hours with my parents. Michael and I definitely miss all the hiking opportunities that Simi, Santa Clarita, and SoCal in general have to offer. They're not joking when they say Texas is flat, and there's pretty much no where to hike in Houston or the surrounding areas. I guess the fact that we can kayak in Houston makes up for the lack of hiking...a little. The thing I do NOT miss about hiking in the SoCal summer is the rattlesnakes. I was paranoid about it pretty much the whole hike because I've encountered several rattlers on hikes before, aaand unfortunately my paranoia was justified because we saw one right off the trail sunning on a rock. It left us alone, and yeah it was our fault for hiking in the summer when they come out the most, but blech I despise those things. After the hike we rushed home to start getting dinner together. We had dinner together as a family (minus Jon :( ) and enjoyed some delicious ribs, yakitori, rice, and veggies. We also made an early birthday celebration out of it for me, and I got a candle stuck in a Magnum bar for the occasion.

Day 11 (Saturday)

Man it was hard to get out of bed today! We did though and headed to Santa Clarita to meet up with our friends, the Grandis. It was a fun morning eating Mexican food, walking around Hart Park, and catching up. After they headed home we dropped by my sister's house for a couple hours. My bro-in-law's brother and his wife were visiting too so we all hung out. Then Michael and I headed off to that sacred and untouchable burger place called In-N-Out. We picked up food and headed to the Lows' house to have a mini reunion with some of the guys Michael lived with in Sunland. It was a really fun evening. There's something so refreshing about spending time with good friends who have history with you and already know you. I feel like 90% of the conversations we have in Houston are get-to-know-you smalltalk fare. There's nothing wrong with that, but man was it nice to just hang out and be us.

Day 12 (Sunday)

Eric, Tam, and Taiko came over so we all ate breakfast with my parents, then had a little prayer time before we headed to the airport. Leaving LA is always bittersweet. It's nice to be heading back "home" but sad too. Our flights were fine and we got home around 11:30pm.

And life rolls on...

Racquetball

Now that the 10k is behind me, i'm looking forward to more sane levels of working out. i know, i know, a 10k isn't a lot compared to a half or full marathon, but it was a big deal for me. Enter racquetball. i think it may be my new favorite cardio workout, even though (in the words of Brian Regan) :

"Racquetball is the only sport where simultaneously you can be looking at the ball...aaand it'll hit you in the back of the head at 90 miles per hour."

Michael's been playing for a couple months now, but yesterday was my first time playing...ever. It consisted of me failing 95% of the time, even after Michael started playing with his non-dominant hand, and me whacking the ball square into his back at one point. (Bonus points!) It was still really fun. Toward the end, my hand-eye coordination brain connections started coming out of deep hibernation, and i was getting a better handle on reading the ball. i worked up a pretty good sweat too, and it's always great when you can merge "fun" and "working out."

Anyway, besides chronicling my un-prowess at racquetball, i have to say i am thankful to God for good health. i've thought about this more in the past few weeks as i was preparing for the 10k, but most of the time i take for granted the healthy body, mind, and activeness God has granted me. i know He can take it away in a heartbeat - through illness, a car accident, whatever, and even then i should still be joyful and grateful since His grace and goodness to me transcend any physical circumstances. But for now i should be more thankful that my current trials are not health related, and should also pray more diligently for those who are facing such issues.

Time again to look back...and forward

*Cue uninspired cliche...now* It's hard to believe another year has already flown by.

Really though, it's gone fast. The new year is always a good opportunity to reflect on the things God has done over the past year, and look forward to what He will do in the coming one. 2010 was certainly a big year. It held our move across two and a half states to Houston, a dream-come-true trip to Alaska, the passing of Michael's grandfather, a second anniversary for Michael and I, joining a new church, new jobs for both myself and Michael, and countless other new and exciting and trying experiences. In all the hubbub, I am increasingly grateful for God's unchanging faithfulness in the midst of all circumstances, good and bad. But really, trusting God in crazy circumstances should be nothing new by now, as God has given me at least one major lifechanging experience each year for the past eight years, since 2003. A brief look back at those game-changers, if only to fondly remember and savor all the ways God has grown me into who I am today...

2003 - graduated from high school, spent a life-changing summer in Poland, Hume Lake, and Fiji and started college at UC Irvine

2004 - experienced a major family heartache that changed my family and I forever but brought us closer with a deeper understanding of God's grace and sovereignty

2005 - studied abroad for a semester in Turkey and visited Israel for the first time with a unique view to the conflicts there that will forever color my perception of the issues

2006 - spent a summer of growth, rest, and crazy fun in Estes Park, CO with the Navigators Summer Training Program

2007 - graduated from UCI, traveled to Israel a second time, had my ideas of what I wanted to do with my life turned upside down, and started work at Children's Hunger Fund

2008 - starting dating, got engaged to, and married Michael

2009 - walked through the intense trials and joys of our first year of marriage and made the decision to move to Texas

And now we're up to the present. There's so much more God has done, so many more life-changing experiences I haven't mentioned, but looking back on all the twists God has put in my life only makes me more excited for what lies ahead. I have long ago given up on guessing what will happen next. Nothing has turned out how I thought it would, but ultimately I couldn't be more grateful for that!

Was 2010 all roses and fun? Was I exempt from trials and sorrows for the year? Of course not. There were some very hard things to deal with and am even still working through some of them. But God is always faithful. Do I always believe that perfectly, and trust Him always without wavering? No. Do I still need much more refining and humbling? (Insert the most vehement word for yes you can think of here.) Do I look forward to 2011 and the ways He will use my circumstances to accomplish that and glorify Himself? Absolutely!

2011, here it comes!